That being said, what you actually say for the opener isn't really relevant. It's more about how it's delivered.
Mystery has spoken about a '3 second rule' in which a guy shouldn't wait any longer than 3 seconds to approach a set as if he does so, he will begin to create negative thoughts in his mind, the set could alter in number or leave.
Mehow went one step further and commented on how he only has a '1 second rule'. His thinking is that there's little point in stalling for a few more seconds, it's best just to go straight in as soon as you see. The guy certainly has some strong inner game, I'll give him that.
Most mPUAs would all stress the importance of entering a set with a smile on your face. It shows that you're friendly and non-threatening. Although it's important to stress that you shouldn't keep it there once you've entered the set otherwise you're given on a creepy kind of vibe.
Another thing to note is the energy level at which you enter into any set. If you're going in with a lower energy level that the set currently possesses, then you're going to be seen as bringing the group down and nobody wants a party pooper. However, don't go too overboard with this, otherwise you're gonna come across as a lunatic who just escaped from the asylum.
Lovedrop did an excellent job talking about approaching as seen in this video from a bootcamp:
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