Hoop Theory

Hoop Theory is about someone getting you to do something. But you shouldn't always jump into their hoops. It's OK to jump in if you get them to jump into yours first.

Thus if a girl asks you a direct question such as 'Where are you from?' and you answer, you've jumped into their hoop. However, if you say 'Guess' then she's going to jump into your hoop first. Of course there are some women who may not be willing to guess as they don't play that game. That's OK, it just means that they're not attracted to you and you're still in A2 not A3 with them.

Now, if you've ask her a direct question and she's asked you to guess, then you can put out your hoop by saying 'well would you like to me to guess x or guess y'.

So, the important thing to remember is if she's not jumping through your hoops means she's not attracted to you.