Monday, 3 August 2009

A2 Characteristics

There are 6 key points that should be noted for this phase of the Mystery Method.

Confidence
Social Proof
Smile
Humour
Well Groomed
Connection

The first three have already been covered in other posts, but I would like to talk more about the later three points as well as discussing social proof further.

If you've got a 2 set, then walking arm in arm with them through a bar is going to build social proof. Don't just walk arm in arm with one of the girls.

When using humour, it should be a playful type whilst using kino escalation and building comfort. An opener could have been cocky like 'Do you know why you suck?' or a cocky DHV story such as My gf was an exotic dancer. In A3 you could be using the line 'So what have you got going for you besides your looks?', but when you get to C1 then turn off the cocky as you've won her. If you're playing with her at any stage, remember to take away the playing, walk away from it, tease her with 'Oh you're no fun/too easy' if having something like a pillow fight.

The idea of being groomed to most will conjure up ideas of wearing smart clothing with a nice hairstyle etc. However, being well groomed is focusing one particular item specifically like a necklace. This leads to the idea of peacocking which will be discussed later.

The connection is something which usually happens in C1. In Attraction stages, you weren't trying to arouse her as you may have got buyer's remorse. Once in isolation then drop the cocky and use vague and abstract language, not boring words. Examples include 'This is special. First impression of you sucked. Now you're special. I don't know why I feel this? I wasn't given an instruction manual.

Types of kino can include biting her neck, sucking on her tongue and grabbing the back of her hair and pulling.

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