When you speak, you need to do so with sensation and emotion. It's not about what you say, but how you say it. Whatever vibe you put out is what you'll get back. Create good feelings and good vibes. Make it playful and smile. Use pauses, speak slowly, be enthusiastic. Step back and get her to lean in. Have your own internal validation, be in your own head, your own little world.
But don't be too expressive as you'll come across gay, but push it to the gayline to get the hook. Don't fidget. Don't try to impress as you're seen as reacting. Engage eye contact with everyone in the group.
Before opening, get into a talkative state, get warmed up by speaking to three other warm up sets. If you get rejected, it's not a big deal, don't be affected. Practise desensitizing yourself to those feelings. Don't care about the outcome. Don't be outcome dependent. Don't be emotionally invested, be carefree. Don't predetermine things.
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