Monday 10 August 2009

Handling Mixed Sets

Although the idea of entering a set with a mix of females and males can seem somewhat daunting. Usually the females are not with their boyfriends/husbands in a bar/club setting. Plus, it's highly likely that no other guy has tried to hit on the females in the set all night either.

When opening a mixed set, be sure to involve everyone. So speak to everyone. Add value to everyone. If there's ever an interrupt in a set. Just ask "Introduce me to your friend. It's the polite thing to do".

Once the women start to ignore the men, then you can do the same thing. If one of the guys tries AMOGging you, ignore him. The women will follow as they'll see him as being a jerk to the fun guy. Just brush off their comments with words like 'cool man/bro', 'whatever'. There's no point in getting into an argument/fight over anything as that's going to lower your value. Some guys may feel the need to AMOG back, but this can be a dangerous tactic. It's important to consider where you are in the set. So, if you have the women's attention then they will ignore whatever the guys say/do.

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